A WIFE IS PRECIOUS GIFT OF GOD. PRESERVE HER ESTEEM WITH LOVE AND CARE
By Narayan Rao, Jun 6, 2025
Man’s seed and woman’s womb. But wait... is it only the womb ? No, no! A woman’s body has to be ready for this.
A man’s seed can be strong at 13 or even at 70 years. But a strong womb is very important, so good health is needed. A woman whose period comes on time every month. Yes, the same period that every woman bears every month. They bear it because it’s not their choice. It is a rule given by nature.
During periods, the body aches, the back feels like it’s broken, legs hurt so much. It feels like someone put stones inside. The pain shakes the whole body. Because of people’s bad thoughts, women hide all this pain.
Giving birth means facing pain that is very hard to bear. They have to be strong in mind and body. Pain like many bones breaking at once.
In the first 3 to 4 months of pregnancy, the body changes a lot and hormones make them sick, tired, and sad. They have to be strong in mind for this too.
From the 5th to 9th month, they carry the heavy belly and do all work. Sometimes they get many injections because of special reasons. (Once even one injection felt too much.)
They bear many hours or even days of pain during childbirth. If the baby doesn’t come, they even go through surgery to take the baby out. They carry stretch marks and scars on their body forever. Sometimes after birth, if milk is less, they drink medicines and herbs to make more. They lose sleep but don’t stop caring day or night.
For 3 years, they live only for the child and still say yes to pregnancy again. This is how a woman feels inside — something a man can hardly understand.
A woman is a power, a sacrifice. She goes through so much and still cares for your likes and dislikes. The one who should be worshipped is treated like a thing. She controls her life, her happiness, and still calls herself a man.
If men are so proud of their manhood, try living as a woman for just one day. If your pride doesn’t break, then say something. Remember, those who don’t respect women, Don’t know what respect really means.
P/S: However no respect for those women who never respect, busy-bodying and dramatizing events on others' family life.
WHAT ARE ATTRACTIVE, FUN AND ENJOYING
By Najeebullah Sadeqi ·
Don't spend so much time trying to be more physically attractive in order to just impress your crush rather than making yourself mentally attractive.
Educate yourself, address your recurring toxic thoughts, deal with your insecurities and learn to be happy on your own. That's attractive.
Normalise saying "No" without needing to over-explain yourself. If someone is offended by your boundaries, that's their problem. The best weight you'll ever lose is the weight of other people's opinion of you.
Don't subscribe to other people's definition of "fun". Fun doesn't have to mean drinking, partying and socialising. Fun can be a night in alone, getting lost in a book, a deep conversation, a walk, creating art, playing music, or doing your work. Fun is yours; you define it.
Just before you get married, discuss bills, parenting styles, credit, debt, how to deal with family, what belief will be installed in your children, childhood traumas, sexual expectations, partner expectations, family health history, bucket list, dream home, career and education, political view and whatever else comes in mind. Love is not enough.
The age of 15-30 is the golden era of your life. You make friends, lose them too. You make mistakes, correct them too. You fall, you fail, you learn, you realise, you hit reality, you fall in love, you get hurt too. You lose yourself and eventually become stronger.
Remember! These might be the best years of your life. You should understand the difference between enjoying it and ruining it.
Be healed before having children so your children don't have to heal from having you as a parent.
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